A Slow Guide to Cleaning Up Your Digital Life
Your digital life doesn’t need a full overhaul. It needs a few deliberate changes that make everything else easier.
Apps are built to keep you inside them. Notifications are built to pull you back. This guide is about taking that control back: one small step at a time.
1. Password Manager + 2FA
What & why: One master key beats a hundred reused passwords. You’ll stop resetting, stop getting breached, stop remembering.
- Install Bitwarden. One tool for everything: browser, phone, desktop.
- Generate a unique password for every account. Bitwarden does this for you. Never reuse one.
- Store TOTP codes inside Bitwarden. It replaces Google Authenticator and auto-fills. Passkeys where supported.
- Enable 2FA on every account that offers it. Use an authenticator app, not SMS.
- Never store passwords in your browser. It’s convenient but it’s not secure.
2. Email Setup — Minimum 2 Addresses
What & why: Too many email addresses scatter your identity. Too few mix your banking with junk mail. Two is the sweet spot.
- Write down every email address you use. You probably have more than you think.
- Pick one for personal life: banking, government, anything that matters. Gmail works.
- Pick one for everything else: social media, signups, newsletters, job boards.
- Outlook or iCloud are fine additions if you need Office or Apple ecosystem. ProtonMail if you want privacy. Beyond that, unless you have a reason, you don’t need it.
- Delete or abandon addresses you haven’t used in 6 months.
- Now the hard part — search your inbox for subscriptions, newsletters, account logins. Unsubscribe from what you don’t read. Delete accounts you don’t use. Mark the rest as spam.
- By the end, you’ll have a list of every account tied to your email. Add them to Bitwarden. Change the passwords. You’ll see what to keep and what to delete.
- Categories to look for: social media, finance, productivity tools, stores, travel, random website signups.
3. Accounts & Identity
What & why: Every unused account is an open door. Close them. What remains is protected.
- Delete accounts you don’t use. If you haven’t logged in this year, you don’t need it.
- Bitwarden checks your saved passwords and emails against known breaches. Run it.
- If you want a second check: haveibeenpwned.
- Some credit cards offer free identity protection. If yours does, turn it on.
- Email aliases shield your real address from breaches. Apple Hide My Email for signups or Gmail alias.
4. Notifications — Earn Their Place
What & why: Turning off everything sounds clean but backfires: you’ll keep opening apps to check. Instead, curate until every alert that comes through deserves your attention.
- Turn off notifications you don’t need. Credit card payment email? Off. Shipping updates you’ll track anyway? Off.
- Keep what matters: job interview replies, bank withdrawals, messages from real people, calendar events.
- The goal: your brain learns that a notification is worth looking at, not something to ignore.
- Badge counts, sounds, and banners? off for everything except calls and DMs.
5. Device & Apps
What & why: The goal isn’t minimalism for its own sake. It’s removing what pulls your attention without earning it.
- iPhone or Android: doesn’t matter. What matters is what you keep installed.
- Delete apps you don’t use. Delete the account first, then the app.
- What you actually need: a few bank apps, phone, messages, music, browser, utilities. That’s it.
- Food apps: keep one. Delete the rest over a few weeks. You’ll save money and cut fast food without trying. I kept one, then none. now I cook at home or use my card at Costco. One change, multiple wins.
- Home screen page 1: daily tools only. Everything else in one folder or gone.
- Disable review prompts, location access, and background refresh for anything non-essential.
6. Social Media — Delete, Don’t Scroll
What & why: Social media costs attention and gives back very little. Most accounts aren’t serving you.
- Don’t delete everything at once. Go one platform at a time.
- Start with Facebook. Log in, scroll through the last year. Who did you talk to? What did you post? Write down the people who matter. Check if they’re on Instagram.
- Export your data (photos, posts) before you delete. Every platform offers this.
- Leave one anchor — one platform where people can find you. Instagram works if you keep it tight.
- On that anchor: unsubscribe from every page, brand, and person you don’t actually know. Cut follows to 300–500 or fewer.
- Delete the rest: Snapchat, TikTok, YouTube app, Twitter. Browser version only if you must check.
7. Browser Hygiene
What & why: Your browser is a tool, not a junk drawer. A clean browser removes friction from every search, every click.
- Keep extensions to what you actually use. uBlock Origin and a password manager are enough for most people. Add a dark reader if you need it, a Reddit redirect if you want it. Remove the rest.
- Bookmarks: 2-3 folders max, 3-4 links per folder. If you haven’t clicked it in a month, delete it.
- Clear your browsing history regularly: monthly is a good cadence. Less cruft, less tracking.
- On mobile, use Safari with an ad blocker (AdGuard, NextDNS) or stick to Firefox with the same extensions.
- Separate browsers for work and personal is optional. If you do it, Firefox for personal, Chrome or Edge for work. If you don’t, profiles work fine.
- Turn off YouTube watch history. Unsubscribe from every channel. The homepage goes blank. You’ll only watch what you search for, not what the algorithm feeds you.
8. Reading Habits
What & why: Open tabs are postponed decisions. Save the link and close it.
- Stop using your browser as a reading list. 47 open tabs is not a system.
- Find something worth reading? Save the link. Ask an AI to summarize it if you’re short on time. Store the TLDR in one doc.
- You don’t need Pocket; one document, one place, whatever works.
9. RSS Feeds — Batch, Don’t Check
What & why: RSS pulls stories to you on your schedule instead of algorithms pulling you in all day. If it clicks with you, it replaces news sites, Twitter for info, and aimless browsing. If it doesn’t, no harm, skip this one.
- Subscribe to your sources in one reader: Feedly, NetNewsWire, Reeder, just pick one.
- Read weekly or monthly, not daily. Batching protects your attention.
- Kill feeds you consistently skip. If it doesn’t earn the open, it doesn’t earn the slot.
- RSS isn’t for everyone. If the idea doesn’t click, skip it.
10. Screen Time — Know Where It Goes
What & why: Doomscrolling is the enemy. You don’t need someone else’s numbers — you know what’s too much for you.
- Track where your time goes. Weekly and daily. iOS Screen Time or Android Digital Wellbeing will show you.
- Reduce where it’s not needed. Not to zero but to a number that leaves room for other things.
- Spend the reclaimed time: learn a skill, call family, talk to friends, go outside, walk.
- Try something new. Or try nothing. Stare into the air. Be bored. That’s fine too — boredom is where ideas come from.
- Charge your phone outside the bedroom. Set Do Not Disturb while you sleep. Turn on night mode on every device — warmer screen in the evening, easier wind-down.
- Two changes you won’t feel during the day and will feel every morning.
- No hard caps prescribed here. You know what’s good for you. The only rule: notice it, then act on it.
11. Files — Clean Up, Organize, Back Up
What & why: You can’t find what you need if you don’t know where it lives. A clean file system takes one session and pays back forever.
- Desktop: nothing. Zero icons. It’s a workspace, not a storage unit.
- Open your folders. Go through each one. Keep what you need, delete what you don’t. Remove duplicates.
- Rename with purpose:
2024-tax-return.pdfnotscan0047.pdf. You should find anything in under 10 seconds. - Folder structure:
/Active,/Archive,/Inbox. No loose files at the root. - Back up: one copy on your machine, one on the cloud (iCloud or Drive, not both), one on an external disk. If you don’t know how, search GitHub for backup tools or just do it manually and it won’t take long.
- Downloads folder: empty it weekly. Treat it like an inbox, not a home.
12. Subscriptions
What & why: You never save money by having a subscription. Even free ones cost attention.
- List everything you pay for. Monthly, then yearly. Write down the amount next to each.
- Are you using it? Free Netflix you never open is still a subscription that owns mental space. Delete it.
- Don’t cancel everything at once. Keep one, remove another, slowly replace what’s not needed.
- Some credit cards offer free subscriptions. Use them if you actually need that service. Don’t take all of them just because they’re offered.
- Some subscriptions are genuine needs. Costco. Obsidian Sync. You’ll know which ones matter for your life. No one on the internet can decide this for you.
- The goal: fewer line items, less money leaving, less to think about.
13. Physical & Devices
What & why: Physical clutter is mental clutter. Every unused device and cable takes up space and attention you could spend elsewhere.
- Don’t hoard. Sell what you don’t need. Keep what you use.
- Before buying: FOMO or real need? Add it to cart, wait a week. If you forgot about it when you reopen, close the tab.
- New iPhone launched but your phone works fine? Skip it. Buy one share of Apple stock instead, or put the money toward a trip.
- Same rule for clothes, shoes, anything you don’t use then sell or donate. Someone else needs it.
- One working set of peripherals. One cable per use case, one charger per location. If cables don’t fit in one drawer, you have too many.
- Buying something? Think long-term on how to sustain it, how to keep it. Buy it for life.
- You’ll save a lot of money buying nothing.
14. Personal Ops Tracking
What & why: Life admin scattered across your head, email, and sticky notes is not a system. One place to track everything removes the mental load of remembering.
- Pick one system: a physical notebook or a vault like Obsidian. I use Obsidian with the PARA method. Zettelkasten is another option if you prefer linked thinking.
- Track what matters: household (appliances, warranties), vehicle (service, insurance), finances, medical, tasks, people you want to stay in touch with, gym log, habits.
- Write it out. Keep it organized. There’s more you can do here with local AI, Claude Code with Obsidian but that’s for another day.
- The point: one system you trust means your brain doesn’t have to hold it all.
Your digital life didn’t need an overhaul. It needed a few deliberate changes. You just made the first one.